Pregnancy
I THINK I’M PREGNANT!
GETTING A TEST
The first sign of pregnancy is usually a missed period or a very light period. This can also come with feeling nauseated, tender breasts and the need to go to the toilet more often. If you think you may be pregnant you need to get a test, this can be done at home, at a doctors or at YHES House.
Tests are available for free at YHES House or you can pick them up from most supermarkets and chemists.
BUT I REALLY DON’T WANT TO KNOW
If you are pregnant ignoring it won't make it go away, if your not you could be spending time worrying about something that doesn't exist. Getting a test will allow you to start gathering information to make your decision. If you decide not to go through with the pregnancy there are time limits to some of your options so getting a test as soon as possible is important.
MAKING MY DECISION
Before you make any decisions about your pregnancy you need to gather reliable information. You may want to talk to someone who is not involved to give you all your choices and help you to choose what is right for you. Remember you're the one who has to live with whatever decision you make so it should be your choice. Don't try and please other people. A number of things may factor into your decision including your own beliefs and values, financial, physical and emotional health.
TELLING MY PARENTS
Telling your parents can be difficult sometimes. How you do this will depend on what sort of relationship you have with them. It may be easier to tell one parent first, or to tell a family friend or relative and have them there for support when you tell your parents. Parents most times will be supportive but don't be upset if at first they appear angry or shocked sometimes it is the last thing they think will happen and have trouble adjusting to the news give them some time to think about it.
TELLING THE FATHER
Just like telling your parents it can be difficult to let the father of the baby know. You may want to talk to a trusted friend or youth worker about supporting you through this. Remember you were probably shocked about the news when you first heard and have been living with it for a while, for them it may not even have entered their head that this might happen and be a surprise. Give them some time to get use to the information.
GET SUPPORT
Whatever you decide you might want to have someone support you through it. This should be someone who you trust to give you impartial information, someone who will give you all your options and someone who will listen to you. You might want to talk to a friend or trusted family member or talk to someone at school, like the school nurse, youth support coordinator or guidance office. You can always come in to YHES House and make an appointment to talk to one of the Youth Workers. All your information will be kept confidential.
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